What to Wear Collective is an online community created by two personal stylists to help professional women guarantee they'll make the most of every opportunity showing up with confidence knowing what to wear.

After years of running our own personal styling businesses, including four years as a Personal Stylist at Nordstrom, we identified a need in a niche market of women, age 40+, who were saying, “just tell me what to wear.”

Have you found yourself saying something similar to any of these statements:

“I want to look on trend and chic regardless of my age” or

“I don't want to dress like a teenager” or

“I don't want to look frumpy”?

Whether you're overwhelmed when it comes to shopping, want to save time or would just like a little inspiration from stylists who hear you, you’ve come to the right place.

We’ve helped hundreds of clients look great and feel confident and let’s be honest, isn’t that what most people want?

We're so excited to be on this journey with you! Please feel free to engage and let us know how we can best serve you.





"What to Wear collective has helped me unlock many new looks and coached me on adding pieces to my wardrobe to update my look and give me more variety in my work week. I love getting new style ideas, as well as links to available items that are tried and true. "

Laura H.


Mary & Jill

Let’s get to know each other a little better...

Mary has a long career in fashion merchandising and has been a Personal Stylist for over 7 years which included  helping open Nordstrom in Milwaukee, WI. Mary has a tailored style and loves to mix designer pieces into her ensembles to create on-trend, yet timeless looks.

She and husband, Craig, are empty-nesters and enjoy traveling, visiting their 3 children in Minneapolis and Colorado, and spoiling their fur-baby, Teddy. 

Jill has grown her Personal Styling business over the last 11 years working with hundreds of clients both individually and through workshops. Jill’s style is slightly whimsical and she has a love for blending high and low fashion.

Jill and her husband, Steve, have 3 children and the “cutest-dog-ever” and live in a suburb of Chicago. They enjoy exploring new cities and watching their kids’ sports.


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